Dear Dr. Mimi

,

I have a colleague at work who I really like, but she repeats the same stories over and over
again. How can I politely let her know that I don’t need to hear it for the third or fourth time?
Sometimes her storytelling keeps me from completing my work. Other than that, she is a great
co-worker and friend.
—Ear-itated
Dear Ear,
It is hard to listen to the same story repeatedly. When she starts to repeat her story, stop her
and say, “Is this the time when …?” and repeat back what you think the story will be. If she
continues to talk, you may have to let her know that you don’t have time to listen now as you
have work to get done.
—Dr. Mimi

Written By

drmimi

  • Dear Dr. Mimi

    I have a colleague who continues to be rude to me. She never says hello or goodbye, andwhen I do, she doesn’t respond. What should I do?—SnubbedDear Snubbed,If these are the only indicators of rudeness, I suggest living with it! She may be a quietperson who doesn’t need to exchange pleasantries. If it affects your…

  • Dear Dr. Mimi

    I have a colleague at work who I really like, but she repeats the same stories over and overagain. How can I politely let her know that I don’t need to hear it for the third or fourth time?Sometimes her storytelling keeps me from completing my work. Other than that, she is a greatco-worker and…

  • Boomers and Zoomers

    Baby Boomers and Generation Z, affectionately dubbed “Zoomers.” have a unique collaboration that leverages the strengths of both generations. Encouraging open dialogue and fostering an environment where both generations feel heard and valued builds a stronger, more cohesive team. Experience Meets Innovation. Boomers have industry knowledge and expertise, offer practical insights and a deep understanding…