Dear Dr. Mimi- Annoyed

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Dear Dr. Mimi:
I applied for a promotion in my company and made the mistake of telling my co-worker. I just learned that he has now applied. So far he has said nothing to me about it. Should I approach him and let him know that I don’t appreciate his applying? I don’t think that he would have applied, had I not said that I was.
—Annoyed

Dear Annoyed:
At this point, there is very little that you can do to change the situation. You are both candidates for the position and hopefully, the position will go to whoever is best suited. Rather than spending your time talking with him, use the time to prepare for your interview.
—Dr. Mimi

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